A husbando is a fictional male character — usually from anime, manga or games — that a fan claims as their favorite, the male counterpart to a Waifu.
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Where the word comes from
A deliberately playful English-Japanese coinage: husband given the same mock-Japanese ending as waifu → husbando (ハズバンド). It exists precisely to mirror the waifu term.
How it's used
Same ritual as waifu — fans declare a husbando, defend him in “husbando wars,” and use “husbando material” for a character with the charm to qualify. It's about his whole character, not just his looks.
Examples & notes
- “Levi is my husbando” — claiming a favorite.
- “Husbando material” — a character worth the title.
- The female counterpart is a Waifu.
Related terms
A husbando is the male favorite; a Waifu is the female one. Which archetype he falls under — a cool kuudere, a prickly tsundere — often decides who claims him.
Frequently asked questions
What does husbando mean?
Why 'husbando' and not just 'husband'?
More from the glossary
Waifu, Best Girl, Oshi and Moe. See the whole anime & roleplay glossary.
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